Date number two was nice. As I shared in my last post, we met at an Indian buffet for lunch on a Saturday.
The first half, conversation was a little stilted and awkward. But right around my second plate of saag paneer, something clicked and we started laughing and talking like friends. We parted ways with a hug and texted a bit afterward. I got the invite for a second date later in the week, but couldn't go because I was out of town. I posed a question a couple days later to re-start the conversation, but didn't get an answer. Probably that's the end of that. Mildly disappointing, but not devastating. I had a nice time, ate some decent food. All in all, a fairly standard date experience. It was with a couple. You might think that would make it especially titillating, but it's not like we were having sex on the salad bar. The whole thing was pretty chill. We matched on some app, exchanged texts, made plans, and spent a couple of hours getting to know each other. Far as I can tell, it didn't work out. Fairly standard? What is "fairly standard" when you aren't dating within a heteronormative paradigm?
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